Going to Festivals (or Events) Alone

Why showing up solo isn’t weird — it’s powerful. And often, the best way to meet people.

By Andre Obamwonyi·April 21, 2025
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There’s a certain kind of magic that happens when you go to something alone — especially a festival or a community event. You’re not trying to entertain anyone. You’re not coordinating group plans. You’re just… free. And open.

We get it — showing up solo can feel intimidating at first. But it can also be one of the most empowering decisions you make. When you go to an event alone, you give yourself the space to connect with people more intentionally. You follow your energy. You have conversations you might’ve missed otherwise.

At Bean, we design our platform for moments like these. Whether it’s a big festival or a tiny book club, we include group chats so you can introduce yourself before stepping into the room. That way, you’re not walking in cold — you’re walking in with context, maybe even a familiar name or two.

And if you do get a bit overwhelmed, that’s okay too. Take a breather. Check in with yourself. Being alone at an event doesn’t mean you’re lonely — it means you’re choosing curiosity over comfort. And that’s a strength.

So next time you see something happening that lights you up, don’t wait for your group chat to say yes. Say yes to yourself. Show up solo — and see what unfolds.